Friday, 28 October 2011

A day without helper, juggling with an active preschooler & a fussy baby, not forgetting housechores too

NN is referred to my baby girl, who is 9 months old at this moment
JJ is referred to my boy, who is 3.5 years old at this moment

7:00amNN wakes up
I brush teeth & wash face while NN waiting in her playpen
I bring her to kitchen together - let her play beside while I eat breakfast - Switch washing machine on for laundry
7:30amI start picking up toys - clean up playing areas - 
sweep & mop whole house except master bedroom as JJ is still sleeping in there
* Prefer to use broom as vacumm cleaner is loud and may awake JJ
8:00amPause cleaning job, NN crying hence put her in carrier and continue my cleaning job
8:30amMake & feed NN breakfast
9:00amJJ wakes up - take out his night diaper
get him a cup of chocolate milk & switch on playhouse disney
Bath NN & feed brestmilk - push her for morning nap
* Morning nap usually is the easiest in a day, but still need to change patterns all the time. Last time needed to be rocked, carried in arms, then electronic cradle "Yao Lan", but now pushing in stroller. Even in stroller, before she would nap easily in lying position, but now prefer in sitting position.
9:30amCook breakfast for JJ 
*Usually is dry noodle + soft tofu + chicken vege soup
while waiting for water to boil - run to toilet wash the mop and hang dry outside
9:45amFeed JJ breakfast while teaching online lesson - Phonics
* Had purchased lessons from ReadingEggs.com
10:00amGetting ready lunch ingredients & cook soup (lunch & dinner) first for family while JJ playing alone
10:30amWhile cooking soup, hang dry washed clothes
11:00amcook other dishes for lunch & dinner
NN wakes up  (about 2 hours nap)
11.30amI take shower with JJ
While NN is in playpen or on the ground in the same room.
* The whole floor is set with mats, so she won't hurt herself if she fells.
12:00pmPrepare lunch for NN & JJ
12:30pmFeed NN lunch & clean her up
1:00pmFeed JJ lunch but he dislike today dish, so need to cook another dish
Raining - bring in all clothes
1:30pmMake drink for hubby & continue feeding JJ again
2:00pmpush NN  for afternoon nap
2:30pmPut all clothes into the dryer to spin dry, prefer to hang dry under sunshine if possible.
JJ watching youtube
3:00pmOnline checking resources for a quick one
3:30pmAfternoon coffee
Leaving JJ playing or watching by himself
* If I need to top up my grocerries the next day, this is the time when I'll jot down things to buy on a paper
4:00pmNN wakes up (about 2 hours nap)
4:30pmPlaying together time - "Bowling"
* If condition allow, I will pick up a basket of toys to sanitise while looking after both kids, sometime will ask JJ to clean up toys together too. Most of the toys are arranged in different baskets based on theme e.g: Vehicles, kitchen, fruits&vegetables, Doctor kits, blocks & puzzles, sports, etc.

5:00pm
Sing, dance & play together
5:30pmPrepare & feed NN dinner
Bring in all clothes that drying outside
* Sometime JJ will takes his nap around this hour
6:00pmNight bath for NN
6:30pmNN evening nap
7:00pmHeat up dinner
                                                                                                         
7:30pmFeed JJ dinner & eat together with him
Playing online game together while feeding JJ eat yogurt
8:00pmTake night shower together with JJ
NN wakes up
8:30pmFold & keep dry clothes in wardrobes
9:00pmPuree & store homemade baby food
9:30pmGather all dirty clothes for next day wash
10:00pmReady for bed
Read or story telling based on JJ requests
* Sometimes I just have to use my own imagination and come out with stories
11:00pmBy this time, both kids usually already asleep.

Keep in mind
  • Things do come up! NN will wake up early or etc, so this schedule does need to be altered sometimes. However, once you are in the habit of doing all of these things it will not be necessary to focus so much on the time of day, except for when its time to eat and when its time for nap. 
  • I'm still breastfeeding NN but totally based on her demand, so whenever she wants, I'll just latch her. Hence, this does not stated in schedule aboved.
Things to improve
  • When JJ was the only kid last time, I used to bring him out for evening walk daily - yes, almost everyday. Now? Huh, not too easy but promise to try my best. This is also why whenever we go out, we will definitely bring him along.

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